BEFORE AND AFTER A SPANKING
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This page has some tips on what to do before and after a spanking . Please feel free to change them to suit your circumstances .
BEFORE
The mental preparation for a spanking can be a real turn on , even as much as the actual spanking . This is about anticipation , being given an appointment, the uncertainty of a new contact or the absolute certainty of a PUNISHMENT SPANKING from a regular disciplinarian . Some thought is given to CLOTHING . The same process takes place in the mind of the person who will be doing the spanking as they prepare the LOCATION , IMPLEMENTS etc . A letter , note or Email may be written requesting ( or outlining the reasons for ) the spanking , it's method , the time and place etc . Consider personal SAFETY and the use of SAFEWORDS .
Physical preparation includes taking a shower or bath , preparing the bottom with lotion or cream which should be water based and easily penetrates the skin . ( This is particularly important for those with dry skin . ) See HONEY BUN SPANKING CREAM . Emptying the bladder is also recommended . Depending on pain tolerance , a pain reliever may be taken ( not aspirin as it thins the blood and makes bruising worse ) . Purists avoid pain relievers because they deaden their sensations and hence enjoyment .
Warm up EXERCISE will loosen the body , particularly the spine and reduce stiffness later . This applies equally to the person doing the spanking , especially if prone to upper back and neck pain .
AFTER
When the spanking is over a massage is recommended , starting by applying pressure ( sometimes heavy ) with the hand and fingers to areas of bruising , particularly the " Tram Lines " left by canes . This is a case of being cruel to be kind as the pressure applied forces the blood back out of the affected area and reduces marking . Of course if want the marks , delete this step .
Next apply cream etc to the area and gently rub in , several applications may be necessary . Use antiseptic cream or lotion if the skin has been damaged ( use rubber gloves etc. ) .
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A little HUMOUR is good at this time as the " wind down " continues . A particularly intimate experience has just been shared and the feelings of those involved should be sought out . This is most important with A punishment spanking as it brings closure .
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